This thread has caused me to recognize that I have had a problem for years... since 2003. I like to spend money, therefore I am a workaholic. Now then, it doesn't make any difference
that the items I spend on increase in value... I still have an addiction to buying. I see items posted and I feel this compulsion to buy them (that is, if they're things I want, listed at fair
pricing)... and yet, I feel no satisfaction in receiving them. I sometimes leave purchases in boxes for months, even years. It's not the actual stacking that feeds me, it's the act of
buying stuff. Life can be a lot less stressful when you aren't constantly scheming on how to pay for something. And if you understand this about yourself (that no matter what "the deal"
is, there will always be another) then maybe you can begin to hope to get a grip on things. However, understanding that you have an issue, and fighting the feelings of compulsions that
assail you when you see more coins listed (that you just GOTTA have) doesn't make it any easier. I sometimes am in agony wanting to pull the trigger, and have to rationalize all the
reasons above to walk away... the only thing that saves me is when I've procrastinated just long enough that someone else snaps up the deals.
So, yeah, I've given this some thought too... but in reverse. I agree with the three month emergency fund. When times are good and silver and gold are at least reliably going sideways,
if not strongly advancing, then it doesn't make a difference if you just liquidate some metals if cash needs arise. But when the bastards are doing what they've been up to for the last
three years, then it becomes prudent to recognize that the rules of the game have changed and take appropriate steps. For me, that now means building an emergency fund from scratch
(as ALL discretionary income always used to be instantly converted to silver or gold prior to this) and doing so means that I need a plan. The LAST thing I want to be forced to deal with is
having to come up with emergency cash by liquidating into this suppressed market.
What I've come up with is similar to what I suggested earlier, but in reverse. I actually have to give myself pep talks, reprogram my brain into thinking "Fiat is Good!" (some, anyway) and
thus I now "bank" about 90% of my excess cash each payday, but will allow myself perhaps that ten percent or more of play money to get a pissy little fix if absolutely necessary from a great
listing from christostock immediately following another spot price plunge. And, as has invariably happened in the past too many times to count, as soon as I have committed to a mouth-watering
deal from him, the little devil lists something even more savory that then permeates me with buyer's remorse.
At least this way, I can now weigh more choices to select from. As I am now building a reserve fund, it also allows me the discretion of picking up the rare below-market bargains that someone
else who didn't manage their strategy optimally is forced to post (you know who you are). If I see something like that, I can act instantly without having to contemplate how I'm going to juggle
expenses so that I'll be able to afford it, and I can PM immediately. You have to, if you want to win those listings. Because if you wait ten seconds they're gone.
Meanwhile, the emergency pot is growing larger gradually, and if the bastards continue their take down to even greater depths... sub $16, sub $15 (even as pessimistic as I am after years of
suffering paper losses from these guys, I don't thing they're going to be able to push it down under $14) then I am placed in the more enviable position of having a large supply of dry powder
on hand to utilize on fresh targets, rather than just drooling from the sidelines, kicking myself over missed opportunities.